I’ve always been very competitive even when I started playing youth football at 8 years of age. I wanted to be the best player on the team. This competitive drive allowed me to excel at the youth level and all the way to the professional level. Each level required a different degree of intensity, competitiveness, and skill from me.
Even though my sports career ended my competitive drive stayed with me even as it pertained to my marital relationship. When I discovered there were levels of loving I knew then I wanted to be the best loving spouse in my house. My wife and I have been competing with each other for the last 25 years, this has put us on the path to becoming masters of the skills of loving, the skills of husbandry, and the skills of wifery.
Just imagine if you and your spouse took on the same attitude of loving competitively. You, as the wife refuse to allow your husband to speak to you with more kindness and compassion. As the husband, to deny your wife the victory of being the one who forgives more readily.
As it has for my wife and I, the game of competitive loving will increase your degree of love intensity and create a winning culture for your marriage.
Our Marriage Mastery Challenge will give you the playbook for competitive loving and a step-by-step guide to executing the techniques of marriage mastery.